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Ghosted and Breadcrumbed: Stop Falling for Unavailable Men and Get Smart about Healthy Relationships

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Publisher ‏ : ‎ New World Library (April 2, 2019)


Language ‏ : ‎ English


Paperback ‏ : ‎ 248 pages


ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1608685861


ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 68


Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 10.4 ounces


Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.7 x 8.5 inches


Best Sellers Rank: #124,487 in Books (See Top 100 in Books) #373 in Dating (Books) #1,006 in Love & Romance (Books) #1,269 in Self-Esteem (Books)


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  • Misleading title
When a crappy guy stops texting you, don’t go down a rabbit hole of self-despair and YouTube videos only to find yourself buying this book. It’s NOT about being ghosted or breadcrumbed, as the title alludes. It’s more about how your upbringing impacts the type of people you welcome into your life ... which is kinda psycho babble. If you were looking for rationale behind someone’s abrupt disappearance, steer clear & just accept that men have zero tact these days. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on October 6, 2020 by Chloe83

  • Ready to move on for good from an unloving relationship?
Read this book if you want to leave a bad relationship, once and for all, or if you’re deciding whether to stay or go, or trying to leave but having trouble getting out. Read this book if you’re with a married or otherwise emotionally unavailable man, or you find yourself in repetitive relationships in which someone ”plays games with your heart”. Dr. Friedman is a compassionate + trustworthy guide - parts loving mother, best friend, and understanding therapist. You’ll learn why you get into bad relationships and get clarity to move on for good. Dr. Friedman provides a clear and concise exit strategy that helps you avoid the traps that keep you stuck or slinking back. You’ll find yourself in the many case studies and deepen your understanding of yourself as you answer the provocative questions. Learn about your patterns and get ready to take action. Don’t waste another day on the useless heartache of loving someone who isn’t capable of willing to love you. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on October 31, 2019 by Mary Ellen Goggin

  • Simple, relatable and intelligent...
So many dating advice books overly simplify the problems: date smarter they say or pick better men. It's never that simple. Dr. Marni breaks down the different ways people feel and then react to the stress dating causes and helps them understand why certain dating habits that are easy for some people, are harder for others. Chapter 8 about your emotions and how they flow is important for everyone because even when we find the right relationship, we still have to deal w/our feelings. I use this book with clients and share it with single friends. It's the best dating book on the market and one you truly want to add to your book shelf. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on February 10, 2020 by Melanie Gorman

  • This excellent book delivers!
For many smart, talented and attractive women, choosing available men turns out to be far easier said than done. We even have new terms for unexplained rejection and non commitment - ghosting and breadcrumbed - the anxiety of which loom large in modern dating. on so many modern dating situations. In this smart and accessible book (full of handy checklists and flow charts), Dr. Feuerman masterfully walks the reader through understanding these phenomena and transforming rational anxieties into choices. After distilling various faces of unrequited love, and explaining attachment theory and the science of love in straightforward relatable prose, she offers readers concrete tools to cope. If you are looking for better ways to manage the intense anxiety of dating, take control of your unsatisfying relationships, or forge an intimate relationship that doesn’t scare or hurt you, this book is worth your time. Highly recommend this excellent resource! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on September 8, 2019 by Self Help Warrior

  • Fabulous easy to read relationship guide for women!
This book helps the reader understand how to identify what constitutes a healthy relationship, how our own body chemistry sometimes gets in the way of our making rational relationship decisions and, best of all, to learn how to care for yourself - emotionally. DNQ
Reviewed in the United States on July 27, 2019 by DNQ

  • Read & reread!! You’ll feel better!!
This book is intelligently written and based on clinical findings. (And there’s no catty tone that we 49 year olds don’t appreciate.) Emotional unavailability is real! Some people just don’t have “it” in their heart to make a relationship work & we are given many reasons why, in this book. With that info, we can (start to) gain confidence & (start to) stop blaming ourselves for anything & everything that we may or may have not done, when a relationship deteriorates. HOWEVER, we must always take responsibility for our part & learn & change, through digging in our own dirt. I highly recommend reading & rereading it, until it sinks in! Thank you, Dr. Feuerman, for writing such an intelligent, compassionate, healing, & inspiring book. I feel much better, because of your book! God bless! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on February 15, 2020 by kelly

  • Great book for therapists and anyone feeling stuck in a relationship!
This is a great book- a very easy and accessible read for anyone who is looking to learn more about the WHY they continue to feel stuck in relationships and HOW they can shift their perspective to find healthy love. I am a therapist and I frequently recommend it to my clients. It's also a great read for anyone looking to learn more about the science of love and attachment theory as well! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on July 16, 2020 by Maureen Melcer

  • A good general overview of unavailable people and how to avoid them
Ghosted and Breadcrumbed provides a good general overview of unavailable people and how to avoid them. The author has clinical expertise and experience to which readers will be able to relate. Changing your attachment style is not done overnight or with the read of one book, but this book will give you a great place to start. It is well written, thoughtfully organized, and well-referenced. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on September 30, 2019 by Lvmy8

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