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Sex Points: Reclaim Your Sex Life with the Revolutionary Multi-point System

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In this refreshingly honest book, the "Queen of Vibrators" and the "Orthodox Sex Guru" shares her easy, proven system to help women have a healthy, robust sex life. Myth: Great sex comes naturally, and when it doesn’t, there is something wrong. Fact: Sex is a gift that takes work. Like exercise or eating right, it also takes practice and know-how. “Queen of Vibrators” Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus believes a healthy, robust, fulfilling sex life is a right for all women. And after twenty years as a sex therapist, Dr. Bat Sheva knows that there’s more to sex than lingerie and beach vacations. Sex Points is the first book that helps you identify and analyze for yourself what factors are affecting your sex life. Using Dr. Bat Sheva’s revolutionary Sex Points Assessment, you can pinpoint what’s keeping you from the great sex you deserve by looking at where you’re scoring low in four key areas: pain, arousal, libido, and orgasm. And then she’ll help you get points back in each of those areas! Your sex life is complex, unique to you, and affected by psychological, medical, and emotional variables. If you think that a diminished sex drive is natural, pain is expected, and no orgasms is no problem—prepare to have your world rocked. Covering everything from how to choose a vibrator to recapturing orgasms, understanding hormones, to rekindling lust, embracing taboo fantasies, and parsing complicated relationships, to what sex really means (hint: it's not just intercourse), Sex Points is a comprehensive, revelatory, I-didn’t-know-it-could-be-this-good guide for every woman, at every age, in every situation. A Fun, Healthy, Fulfilling Sex Life is Your Right! And Sex Points will get you there. Read more


Publisher ‏ : ‎ Hachette Go (March 9, 2021)


Language ‏ : ‎ English


Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 320 pages


ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0306873877


ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 74


Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 1.1 pounds


Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6.7 x 1.5 x 9.55 inches


Best Sellers Rank: #696,612 in Books (See Top 100 in Books) #954 in General Sexual Health #2,007 in General Women's Health #2,120 in Sex & Sexuality


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  • Bold, Brave, Brash, Funny, and Relentlessly On-Target :)
At long last -- the one and only Dr Bat Sheva Marcus finally lets it rip. And the sex world may never be the same again, which in case you're wondering is a very good thing. For decades, sex therapists have been content to use the same old methods and get the same mediocre results. But that's changing, and Bat Sheva has been in the forefront of that change. Years ago, she partnered with a urologist to found what has become the largest independent women's sexual health center in the US. And in this book, she shares what she's learned from the thousands of women who've passed through her office. She's brave enough to call bullshit on treatments that don't work, and impatient enough to keep innovating in search of new ones that might work better. This book will introduce you to new approaches to common sex problems like low desire, missing orgasms, and painful sex. Some of the treatments she describes are by now well-established. Others are just becoming known and are still controversial. She's very clear on which is which. She's also fantastic at breaking down barriers between medical and psychological approaches. The best results often come when you combine both of these together. Unfortunately, not many practitioners know how. This book represents a bold step in that direction. If you've never met Bat Sheva, be forewarned. She doesn't pull punches. On page 123, for example, she writes, "When women tell me, "My doctor checked my testosterone level and it was normal," I say, "Normal for what? For not being dead?" It's vintage Bat Sheva. Funny, brash, not afraid to be controversial, and relentlessly committed to not wasting her time -- or yours. If there's something missing in your sex life, and you're seriously interested in fixing it, you won't go wrong with this book. Same if everything's okay and you'd just like to keep it that way. Chances are you won't agree with everything she says. But there's hard-earned wisdom in these pages, and if you're serious about getting help there are few better places to start. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on April 19, 2021 by Stephen Snyder MD NYC

  • This book is for everyone
I haven't known about Batsheva Marcus for a long time. I followed an Instagram account that mentioned her at some point and it's safe to say I am now one of her biggest fans. I really enjoy her stories and posts on her own page, but also her stories and igtv series on Maze (her clinic's page). She is fun and witty and makes talking about sex and pleasure fun and easy. When she announced she was releasing a book I was ecstatic! I mean, I emailed my library immediately and demanded they pre-order it so I can read it asap! When I finally got my hands on the book it was better than I had ever anticipated. Batsheva's wit and intelligence oozes through her words in the book. The damn thing is a page turner, which I could not put down and continued to revisit certain parts until my 14 days were up and it had to be returned to its home at my local library. I was thrilled to see my husband took a hint and bought me a copy as an early mothers day gift. This book is much more than some practical advice, it is a reminder that we are all on a journey and that there is always room for improvement in our sex lives. Her quiz is really interesting and a good reminder that we don't know it all, but through her decades of experience, Dr. Batsheva is there to hold our hands and guide us to the most fulfilling sex lives we can possibly have. This book is for all stages of the sexual career and is intended so. It is so much more than a handbook or guide. She takes a completely different approach than other popular sex books such as Emily Nagoski's, 'Come as you are'. I have been screaming from the rooftops about this book to all my friends, colleagues, and family. I hope they and you will take my advice and give Dr. Batsheva a chance to count up your sex points and maximize your potential in the bedroom with her as a guide. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on May 5, 2021 by yg

  • An important book for all women!
A book for all women. You don’t have to be “searching for help” to enjoy and benefit from Dr. Batsheva’s wisdom and years of experience. Ty for sharing your insights in an easy-to-read, humorous and informative way.
Reviewed in the United States on January 17, 2023 by Sara M.

  • Fun Quiz Personalizes the Book's Advice!
I've read a lot of "self help" books before but this is the only one that allowed the author to get to know ME, the reader. The online quiz (link provided in the book) helps you see where your sex life is holding and where it has room to improve. You can certainly read every page of the book, but I liked focusing on the chapters and advice provided for my specific areas of improvement. I mean, if vaginal pain isn't your issue, no need to dwell on it, right? Anyways, who doesn't love taking a Cosmopolitan type quiz? This one was still fun but more substantive and provided advice tailored to my particular situation. Highly Recommend! ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on May 10, 2021 by rbTX

  • Helpful for Regular People
There's a lot of wisdom in this book. It turns the whole chicken before the egg thing upside-down- what's working and what's not in your sex life. I really relate to the way the author says that it's not always mental. I also really appreciate that she writes about pain and says it doesn't have to be that way. There are real answers here (with a plan of action!!!) and I love how she writes that real beauty can come out of the mundane. Good read for people who want to invest in an important part of life. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on March 15, 2021 by Cecily M

  • Excellent book. Well written. Dignified.and informative
The author is brilliant and has accumulated a great deal of knowledge on the subject yet she she writes in a very accessible and down to earth manner. The book is full of common sense yet also generous with the newest social scientific information on the subject. A must read not only for orthodox women but for anyone who wants to enjoy a satisfying and dignified sex relationship with a partner. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on September 6, 2021 by BG bronx

  • Very highly recommended
“As a veteran sex therapist,” Sex Points by sex therapist Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus begins, “I am frustrated almost daily by a persistent myth: that great sex comes naturally, and when it doesn’t, there is something wrong. “Give me a break.” Marcus goes on in a refreshing, candid, warm voice to offer specific and practical advice to achieve good sex. This book is not only informative; it also is an enjoyable read. I strongly recommend it; you won’t be disappointed. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on March 14, 2021 by New York City mom

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