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If You're So Smart, Why Aren't You Happy?

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The first book by the creator of COURSERA®'s most popular online course in 2015, "A Life of Happiness and Fulfillment" Could the same traits that drive your career success also be keeping you from being happier? Fifteen years after getting his MBA, Raj Raghunathan spent some time with his old classmates. He noticed that though they’d all done well, there didn’t appear to be much correlation between their academic success and career success. What Raj found even more curious was the even smaller correlation between career success and what he calls life success. The greater the career success, the more unhappy, out of shape, harried and distracted his friends were. If intelligence helps with decision-making, smart people should naturally make better life choices. So why are so many of the smartest, brightest, most successful people profoundly unhappy? Raj set out to find an answer to this problem, and extensively researched happiness not just of students and business people, but also stay-at-home-parents, lawyers, and artists, among others. If You’re So Smart, Why Aren’t You Happy? takes readers on a fun and meaningful tour of the best research available on how some of the very determinants of success may also come to deflate happiness. Raghunathan explores the seven most common inclinations that successful people need to overcome, and the seven habits they should adopt instead. Among his surprising findings... ·The correlation between wealth and happiness is much smaller than you'd expect it to be ·Generosity is not only a key to happiness, but a determining factor of long term success ·Appreciating uncertainty, rather than seeking full control of outcomes, is necessary for happiness If You’re So Smart, Why Aren’t You Happy? will give you a powerful new perspective on your work, personal goals and relationships, whether you’re already successful or just starting out. Read more

Publisher ‏ : ‎ Portfolio; Illustrated edition (April 26, 2016)


Language ‏ : ‎ English


Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 352 pages


ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1101980737


ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 36


Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 1.19 pounds


Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 6.2 x 1 x 9.3 inches


Best Sellers Rank: #498,940 in Books (See Top 100 in Books) #2,362 in Motivational Management & Leadership #2,808 in Business Motivation & Self-Improvement (Books) #5,600 in Happiness Self-Help


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Top Amazon Reviews

    • Finally! A road map to happiness!
This is one of the best books I've ever read. I am an intellectual type, and a romantic type, and have long been searching - intuitively and instinctively - for what brings me the most happiness. What path? What attitude? Is there a specific religion that will resonate with me? I have followed Joseph Campbell, mythology, several religious teachings, the makers of great art, fine literature, comedy, adventure, and money. I have really and honestly tried for four decades to sooth myself and find happiness. By the way, I am a reasonably happy person. I have found certain strong clues on the way to my quest for happiness. For example, Grandfather Vanderhoff in the movie classic "You Can't Take It With You" is an excellent example of a happy man. Watching that movie connects me to the spirit of happiness. Also, Joseph Campbell tells us to 'follow our bliss' as advice for life to lead us to happiness. Both of these leaders: Grandfather Vanderhoff (fictional) and Joseph Campbell (real) have helped shine a light on how to be brave and value happiness above money. However, they have not really answered the difficult nitty-gritty questions about how to do that. This book, "If You're So Smart, Why Aren't You Happy?" answers the nitty-gritty questions about how to value happiness above money, above superiority, above control, and above all the other temptations in our culture and in our own pre-wiring that subtly pull us away from happiness. Raj has pointed out what the problem is. I'm not saying he has answered all questions for all mankind regarding happiness. But I can honestly say he has, in my opinion, pointed more accurately and more clearly and specifically to what makes us happy than any other writer I have read, ancient or modern. Raj's book is a true treasure. When determining a book's worthiness, I often ask myself, "If I were stranded on a deserted island and could only have ten books to read for the rest of my life, would this be one of them?" I guess you can imagine what the answer is regarding Raj's book. Yes. In fact, I actually continue to read the book again after reading it once. Raj urges us to do the exercises in the book that bring happiness, not just to read the book. And I think this is key to the book's value. It doesn't just point out what causes happiness by saying it (even though that alone is astounding!), but he gives us exercises we can do regularly to train ourselves to value happiness and kind of get in the habit of making happiness-producing choices. So the first time I read the book, I simply absorbed the information and made notes and was astounded. The second time I'm reading the book, I'm taking the time to learn the exercises and to practice them. I can honestly say, even from reading the book once, and even moreso from my second time through with doing some exercises, I am a happier person. I have learned, with relative accuracy, what it is that makes me happy and what it is that doesn't. And I am CONSCIOUSLY AWARE of that, not just kind of intuitively familiar. In other words, I can accurately state, in sensible words, what things make me happy and unhappy. And that is thanks to Raj. Here are some of the things that make me happy: *Moving towards something that excites me, taking steps towards some exciting goal, big or small. *Remembering to value something for how much I like it and enjoy it, irregardless of its monetary price set by others *Avoiding materialistic signs/billboards, and places where materialism is glamourized *Remembering to control myself internally, and avoiding attempts to control what is around me too much in others *Having a positive attitude about humanity, and having some faith in people, and avoiding thoughts that people are wretches and life sucks *Doing giving and kind acts: like buying ice cream for my coworkers, or buying a gift spontaneously for someone I love *Placing trust in others which they can easily prove they are worthy of, and avoiding thoughts that people can't be trusted *Placing boundaries on my habits of giving to others and on helping others so that I am helpful, but smart in how I do it, so it is not straining to me. All of these things I learned from Raj's book. And by the way, the summary of how to live an 'abundance-minded life' rather than a scarcity-minded life towards the last part of the book is wonderful. He tackles the tough issue of how to actually live a trust-filled, positivity-filled life in a world which doesn't always support that notion. So Raj is no dreamer. He has his feet on the ground and actually gives us real answers of how to apply happiness principles to an imperfect world. And one more thing, I love that he uses scientific experiments to back his theories. This is truly special. Otherwise this would just be another philosophical book that sounds good, but which may or may not be true. Raj can show you, through siting actual scientific studies, that his thoughts about happiness are true. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on October 19, 2016 by Firecat Hat
    • Many powerful insights that will indeed help YOU become happier!!
What a neat title for a book! Raj Raghunathan, a professor of business at the University of Texas at Austin, has a somewhat unusual take on what he is supposed to do. I have met hundreds of business school professors and had weighty discussions on teaching. A few don’t particularly care about teaching and view it as a necessary evil for their faculty position. Most want to do a good job of communicating the intricacies of their particular discipline to students. A smaller number would really like to get their students excited about the ideas they share and get them to delve deeper. Raj is one of the few, a very few, who views his job as helping his students lead happier, more fulfilling lives. He discovered that business schools do a pretty poor job of this. So do most other educational institutions. He began to offer a course on happiness. It was soon oversubscribed and his teaching ratings soared. Many let him know that The Happiness Course was the most meaningful part of their business school education. This started Raj on what has now become a life work: What are the determinants of a fulfilling and happy life and how can one achieve this? Go back to when you were a young kid. Can you remember being filled with joy for no particular reason and being entranced for hours watching ants in a hive or butterflies flitting or rain pattering on the ground? When is the last time you felt like that? Why do we seem to lose our capacity to be happy as we grow older and can we do something about this? The answer is a resounding yes. The reason we are not happy as we scurry around building our businesses or advancing our careers is that we are diverted into making false tradeoffs. He illustrates this with “The Genie question.” Suppose a Genie were to appear before you and give you three wishes, what would you pick? Most would ask for vast wealth, stupendous success and fulfilling relationships. And why is this? Because we think that these will make us happy. So why not ask for happiness directly? Virtually no one asks the genie for this. The reason is insidious. We get distracted by subsidiary goals. We also devalue happiness in pursuit of intermediate objectives that appear more tempting. The Happiness Paradox explains why business school students universally choose high paying jobs in finance over lesser paying ones in say manufacturing even though they freely admit that they would actually have a life in the latter as opposed to being chained to their desks in the former. The book has many insights that are blindingly obvious after they have been explained to you. For example, pursuing happiness actually makes you unhappy. This is because when you are fixated on happiness, you evaluate how happy you are. And invariably you are less happy than you would like to be so you actually become unhappy about unhappiness. The way out of this trap? Make happiness a priority but don’t chase it. Do activities that you like and are good at. Let happiness ensue. It’s similar to trying to fall asleep. If you are focused on making it happen, you are guaranteed to spend hours tossing and turning. Instead, calm your mind, turn off electronic interlopers read an enlightening book and you are in slumber land. The last chapter makes the case that the quest – not obsession – for personal happiness is actually a win-win-win-win solution. Your happiness level goes up, your chances of success improve, you feel fulfilled by altruism at the personal level and meaningful productivity goes up on a societal level. Now that is a consummation devoutly to be wished. The book ties into a website that gives you many exercises and additional resources. Full disclosure – Raj took my course when I was teaching at Columbia Business School and is now a valued friend. ... show more
Reviewed in the United States on April 26, 2016 by Srikumar S. Rao
    • Good read. Need real practice to see results.
Easy to relate, at time feel it's "dumb" as in the advice is very common. However, how smart we are if we aren't able to practice what makes us happy?
Reviewed in the United States on January 31, 2017 by Yoong Sin
    • Damaged book
Bought the book as new but it came wrinkled and damaged… disappointing
Reviewed in the United States on August 23, 2022 by Anh Luong

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